What sorcery would that require?
Bad for you specifically or personally. Did you have to do something to leverage it or did it judt naturally unfold to an optimal outcome?
By that I mean what are some powerful and simple basic applied techniques or behaviors that are really useful you've developed or discovered in your life that makes things work or improve.
Lets keep them simple and powerful 🧙♂️
Let people on the phone know that you don't mind if something is taking a bit longer and that you're cool and with them whatever happens. Say something like, its okay I'm not in a rush ☺️
They'll appreciate taking some of the pressure off and showing you are a receptive audience (you're rooting for them) and I've found it to get superior outcomes since I started doing it, even tho I was always generally polite previously
People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life
Doesn't matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.
Just noticed the steam from my tea 😅
It seems like a sort of idée fixe that means something, just like that twinkly bit that plays in the sad introspective theme.
Sort of like a black starry sky reflecting off an ocean of sadness. I dunno haha, it seems like it signifies something
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