@BadlyHunt
@lemmy.pwzle.comMy personal (extremely small) instance with only a few users currently costs around $8 / month on a VPS. Still have plenty of headroom for more users as well I believe.
I was up and running in about 5 minutes with Lemmy Easy Deploy. I can’t recommend it enough.
You should be able to set the swipe options for the default mail app in the Settings menu.