Trans Megathread for the Week of 6/17 - 6/23 PRIDE EDITION THREE
MORE PRIDE THAN EVER BEFOOOOOOORE
MORE PRIDE THAN EVER BEFOOOOOOORE
Just thinking today about how trans people have been more friendly and helpful to me than my own flesh and blood family has ever been. Imagine being a transphobe and punching down on people that have beautiful hearts. Couldn't be me (plus kill all transphobes).
I couldn't get a trans flag in my name
biggest betrayel of making a hexbear account is realizing you can't do cool stuff with the name
I already had an idea (that it wasn't possible), though I had seen Tabitha with a ☢️ so I was hoping it might possible, just a bit of technical grease needed. But nope, it must have been changed.
::: spoiler titty talk holy fuck it's been like 7 weeks on E and I already have small tits. these are not "i'm just amab and chubby" these are TITS. they have the shape and the breast tissue and the sensitive nipples i have tits already and they're growing by the week holy FUCK :::
i feel like a she/they except that i actually don't like they/them pronouns and this will never make sense to the cishets
The amount of people who told me I dont need to give people the option of 'they' was remarkable uncomfortable, in my experience if you give people the option they'll use binary pronouns anyway
and if you say 'any' theyll refer to you as cis more or less haha yes
I know it's a dead end but some days more than others I really resent that I wasnt just born a cis girl. Like I know I've felt this way for so long. Like since I was a kid. But it really does just kinda suck. I like being trans for sure though it's just.. it's so much work and I feel like I missed so much
::: spoiler sad
I like being trans for sure though it's just.. it's so much work and I feel like I missed so much
I feel this so hard, I find myself constantly needing to stop myself from wallowing in my own sadness about missing out on any sort of 'girlhood'.
And also like why does everything need to be so hard? Voice training is so garbage I just want to sound good :::
Voice training is killing me because I simultaneously know that it's like, the big thing that stops people from seeing me and also it feels so Impossible that I will never get there. Like, yes, my face is quite masculine, it's very angular and I have really strong features, but like I think my voice is really the thing that kills me. Ugh. But I feel like such a joke when I try girl voice
Just celebrated 1 year on E last week by getting myself some beautiful boots and getting a bunch of (mostly) trans friends together for dinner. First time I have ever felt like I was part of a community. It made me so happy, ya’ll.
I really love this. I never did any sort of celebration but it seems like such a good reason to get all the trans friends together.
::: spoiler talking about dysphoria? Dysphoria has definitely become like a background noise kind of thing lately. Constant, but low intensity. It feels a little wierd to say it but this is so much better then the random spikes between "I'm completely fine" and "holy shit I'm dying".
Has this happened to any of you? is this a sign I'm cis
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What are the chances FromSoft is brave enough to make Miquella actually trans, instead doing the weird "trans in every way that matters, but not trans"-trope again?
Been praying for them to try and redeem themselves since finding out about the St. Trina/Miquella connection.
I have very low hopes though.
If someone convinces them that it will spur outrage marketing from weirdos and increase sales, then maybe?
Or in 20 years when they re-make the game?
I love how a discussion post on i saw the tv glow can hit the front page of this website, god the culture here fucks so hard
Today was a fairly rough day for me. Haven't had this rough of one in quite a while.
::: spoiler Misgendering and dysphoria I got misgendered for the first time in roughly 9 or 10 months today. The worst part is is that it was one of my wives that misgendered me. It was an obvious mistake as I wasn't even in the room nor talking to her and she was playing with her dog, but holy fuck did it sting. It sent me into a rabbit hole of dysphoria that I haven't felt in an extremely long time. It's been made significantly worse by the fact that it was one of my wives that did it. Still reeling from it. Just find myself staring off into space ready to cry out of the blue. I hate this feeling and hope it goes away soon. :::