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KUALA LUMPUR, July 17 — Sex nowadays can be just a swipe away for anyone with a mobile phone in hand. The smartphone era has brought an abundance of convenience to us thanks to...
This is a long-lived post intended to serve as a general guide and coordination point, for people interested in building communities on monyet.cc! (Context)
We're posting this in order be linked on the sidebar. But very happy to discuss / take input and questions while it's on the frontpage!
Context: This is a test of looping the community into our decision-making process via smaller posts on !meta. No promises that this will be a regular thing; this was time-consuming to write up. And likewise do let us know if this feels spammy!
After some bouncing around with the team internally, here is what we've converged on for NSFW communities.
Arguments for
Arguments against
NSFW text content: Generally welcome
NSFW image content: Mature content is fine, sexually explicit content is not
General limits: Don't be a scumbag
(Thanks @weecious and @cendawanita for contributing initial thinking on this!)
What happens now: We'll let this sit for a week for public comment, and make updates if needed. And then we'll mark this as finalised and link to it from sitewide policy places.
Additional thoughts welcome if any!
I've actually been wondering about this for a while. Realised this is a really good place to ask!
So when you're dating someone in Malaysia. How often do you like to check in with your partner? How much is too much or too little?
I'm a pretty independent nyet so once every couple days feels about right for me. And maybe share some funny link if it pops up. Any more and I start feeling this slightly smothering obligation hanging in the air. But I've heard a pretty wide range on what people think is normal / makes them insecure. Like some couples wish each other good morning and good night every single day kinda thing. (But also some couples wear 100% matching outfits when they go out. Pls just let me die instead)
Update: Federation and community creation are now back online!
Hey all, there's a hack floating around which spreads via federated comments and steals users' Lemmy auth tokens. Lemmy.world and other large instances have been hacked, so we're taking some precautions until this is fixed:
FYI, there are no indications that anyone on our instance has been hacked. We did find ten comments with the code injection attack, which we've now scrubbed. But it's very unlikely that this will cause harm at this stage. There are several steps between this and hacking the entire instance. (Also FYI for nontechnical users, the hack affected Lemmy logins and nothing else. Web browsers run all websites in a kind of "jail")
Sorry for the inconvenience – growing pains. Updates to come as we learn more!
https://hype.my/2023/330426/ranking-the-most-popular-dating-apps-in-malaysia-from-best-to-eww/
Whether it's you, your friends, your unmarried auntie - it seems like everyone is going online to search for their soulmate nowadays. According to a 2022
Hi all, just an update from this post, where we asked for input on site direction and growth. We took these on board, and did some research into what other country instances and forums are doing.
Here's what we propose – input welcome before we start making changes!
1. Theme weeks, aka bootstrapping and promoting communities to r/Malaysia
2. !Malaysia channel
3. Upgrades and mobile apps
4. Improving moderator coordination
Input and ideas of all kinds super welcome. Thanks for joining us on the journey of building this place up!!