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When Hamon (aka Fluffy tail lover) dropped Catgirl in the Pantry: An anime-inspired reverse isekai adventure romance by Scott Sinclair in the #reccomendations channel of the Discord I was skeptical. The title gave me some doubts. While the title may evoke images of a smutty catgirl story, what we actually get is a loving deconstruction of the catgirl genre.
Catgirl in the Pantry is about Gavin, a highschool student, who suddenly finds that a catgirl has appeared in the pantry of his house. The catgirl introduces herself as Lilah, a Emisary of nature. An Emisary of Nature is a human who are inhabited by an animal spirit, changing their appearance and enhancing strength and stamina. Gavin convinces Lilah to hide out in his room while the both figure out what the hell is going on. This isn't always easy, as Lilah is energetic and inquisitive. She is used to roaming the wilds of her home world. While Lilah is hiding in Gavin's room, they develop a close friendship that Gavin starts to hope will develop into more. But Lilah doesn't seem to keen on a relationship after being dumped into a confusing new world.
Meanwhile, Gavin needs to maintain his normal life. That means he needs to go to school, spend time with his family, and oh yeah start dating Autumn, who he has had a crush on forever. Do you smell trouble? I do.
The story is slow burn, giving the friendship between Gavin and Lilah a lot of time to develop. Around the halfway mark things pick up, when a secret global organization dead set on eliminating "cryptos" (visitors from otherw worlds) sets their sights on Lilah. At this point external events in the story pick up and you see more action.
What I liked: I liked Gavin and Lilah. Gavin and Lilah are fleshed out characters, and there are interesting secondary characters, like Gavin's best friend Michael. I haven't (yet) read a lot of catgirl stuff, but I thought Scott's approach was thoughtful, if a bit on the nose at times. At first I was worried that the book would run into the issues mentioned in Born Sexy Yesterday, but Scott successfully navigates that hurdle.
What I didn't like: This book follows some traditional romance beats, where the relationship is completed in the final pages of the book, with a single prologue chapter time jumps forward explains how the relationships resolve. The denouement is far too short, the situation isn't given space to breath.
Overall I would recommend this book, and will keep an eye out for Scott's future stuff.
In light of recent policy changes over at Reddit, I’ve decided to create a new space for the RFM community here over at lemmy.world. To be clear, the original /r/Romance_for_men community on Reddit is not going anywhere, it will stay for those that want to use Reddit. I created this lemmy community because I want everyone to have access to RFM discussion.
During the API changes and ensuing protests Reddit CEO Steve Huffman made a number of controversial statements, but one in particular caught my attention: "We’ll continue to be profit-driven until profits arrive". Despite burning so much good will to enact the API changes, we know that 3rd party apps are used by a small fraction of Reddit's users. Charging these users high fees isn't going to be what swings Reddit into the black.
I believe the API is only the beginning, and in the future Reddit will employ more aggressive and user hostile monetization strategies. Lemmy can be a refuge as Reddit pushes its users away. My hope is that the early adopters that join me here can make the path easy for those who come later.
For those who are new here and have never heard of romance for men, and may be asking "what is this community"? Our community is a space to talk about romance media that men like to enjoy. Looking at our official book list will help you get a sense of what books we like to read. As always RFM is an inclusive space. We welcome everyone who interacts with kindness and civility.