Sometimes I find blurs meaner than pixels. With pixels I can squint and imagine I can see things!
I'm a sub to my wife. When she hurts me, it gives her a satisfying sense of control. She's very empathetic and can see my desire and pain, and me fighting through the pain to ask more.
If I had to sum up the goal of BDSM: intimacy.
Just as sharing a sexual experience is intimate, so is sharing a painful one.
Of course, it's not for everyone and it's not universal.
I haven't had a problem with spam or anything, probably ok for now. Is there some benefit to sharing the workload?
Maybe the key in ice trick would work for you? Just freeze your key at the bottom of a container, then when you decide to unlock, thaw it. The couple hours it takes will give you pause and in an emergency you can always break the ice or speed it up with hot water.
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