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Fediverse Observer
https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/
Lemmy Servers Status. Find a Lemmy server to sign up for, find one close to you!
There's more than just lemmy.ml - my home on Mastodon SDF.org has a Lemmy instance as well.
I am figuring this out as well but, this link will allow you to find instances near you.