Dang, too bad it isn't loading. I have a really malleable dick when soft and have broken out every cage I've had. Sometimes I worry it is just a thing but then I saw your other post 🥵 I want that one.
I've only had it on for about 54 hours by now, but so far I am much happier with this stainless device than any of my plastic ones (although, my newest plastic cage is about seven years old by now, something to keep in mind). It's also inexpensive, like 30USD with sales tax. Just search for Ternence. They sell on Amazon, but they have their own website to shop from as well.