No one cares about your dick as much as you care about your dick. And I am quite literally a professional dick rater.
Got into cycling, and learned not to care. I've got nothing to prove to anyone. When it comes to games, I've never had a complaint. Anyone obsessed with size has never really had a great experience. Intuition and self awareness are some powerful tools.
Grower here: totally fine with me. This might just be my experience and my relationship with my penis, but I've never really had an issue with being seen soft.
As a grower, yeah agreed it's much more comfortable, and I am bit of a sleeper agent I've heard so many times "I didn't expect it to be this big!" which is fun. I once had a girl tell me she didn't think my dick would be big because I was nice to her but I think that says more about her life than me
Growers are AMAZING! You put this cute lil nubbin in your mouth for a bit and VOILA! MAGICAL MEAT TRUNCHEON SUDDENLY
one time when I leaned back a bit I accidentally peed between the seat and the rim, but other than that it's okay. I'm not particularly comfortable in nudism settings though