Porn boyfriend - always hard when you need him. Goes down like a champ, hung bigger than 90% of guys.
Real boyfriend - expects you to cook, clean, and work as many hours at a job as he does. Mansplains when all you want is a hug.
Am I doing this right?
I mean, these are the traits that turn porn into a bad addiction and form those "sigma"/misogyny mindsets. The idea is to not have a "vs" but to identify the two as separate, and find someone that is fulfilling in your life as opposed to fulfilling a fictional fantasy. Porn actresses do this for money. They don't do it for you, or to be a role model.