Phenotype doesn't determine sex. It's a function of it. You literally agreed with me on this.
Tell me you don't understand biology and genetics without telling me you don't understand biology and genetics. You've succeeded.
Also biology hates binaries. Nature hates binaries. They're exceedingly rare.
That's not objectification. That's not reducing men to a literal object for women's desires. It's a false equivalence. Men are shown to be people in all of the contexts you just listed. In fact you'd be hard pressed to find a romantic comedy where the man isn't a character in their own right. Same goes for dramas. They definitely exist but they're a vast minority.
As a woman, who is into men, and has friends who are also into men. Everyone I know who is into men would say Hiddleston is more attractive than any of them.
When we say buff men are there for the male gaze what we're saying is that they're filling a male power fantasy of being the "big strong hero" archetype. You'll also notice that all of them were depicted as being complex characters in their own right, absent of just being big and buff.
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