Oh now come on! Venus of Willendorf is a niche kink and you know it. While controversial and scientifically debated, I think sexual dimorphism and retention of many neotenous traits in homo sapiens speaks volumes about true long term attractiveness across time. I think physical attractiveness has minimal value outside of infatuation and reproduction as a collective species... and as a quick self serviced hormone tuning. Given enough time, one with an open mind can find attractive features in anyone.
Most strait porn dudes are rather cringe. I think the best are likely those mostly behind the camera, or assumed to be. Little Emo Kitten, or Little Caprice come to mind as a fantastic content creator and photographer respectively. So much of the role of a good cis man is bringing out the best in a partner. Those elements seem difficult to capture on camera in a fulfilling way. I think it is hard to show but might even be impossible. I've learned with LLM's that much of what I appreciate about intercourse is non verbal but female focused exploration.
Do you think it is possible for both partners in cis hetero intercourse to have pure selfless intentions? Does a male focus necessitate an unarousing female to watch or devolve into a BDSM kink every time?