Yep. Different circumstances but similar stack of experiences; facial hair and furry butts just aren't my thing
Wasn't anywhere close to ever being in such a situation. But roleplay and fantasies are fun during sex, a bit of dirty talk, teasing and talking about fetish spice things up in bed.
Sexuality is really irrelevant, as long as you're faithful to your spouse, the ins and outs of who you find attractive simply don't matter. If your partner is fine with you doing a 3some, doing something to the same gender side doesn't invalidate you as a person. If you want to call yourself bi/pan or continue to label yourself as straight, it's up to you and no one else. The sooner you realise it, the better the chance of a successful partnership and sex life.
I feel like it needs to be said so it might help someone.