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My vote is that we ban it here. I think the best solution for these issues is to have at least two NSFW instances. One that's more tightly moderated and more socially acceptable, and a second that's run with a more Libertarian wildboi flair. Business up front, party in the back. Maybe call the other one something like LemmyTrueNSFW, or LemmyWildNSFW, or something like that. This is how Federation achieves censorship-resistance. It allows a space for those on the fringe, while preventing the fringe from overwhelming the normie majority.
I like this option, I agree that while It's not something I'm into I feel like we should not kink shame those who are. Creating a second instance for the more taboo things allows for it to exist but we still won't see it while browsing 'All' in lemmynsfw. But it's there for those who want to subscribe to it.
I guess I have a couple of those, from time to time. Damned if I know when one is coming, though.