Oh....yeah, this is a bit of an older one, but def a golden one!
Something about the progression from light to intense, and the timer/countdown thing that goes on is just...very nice.
I think wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world really nailed it with their tl:dr.
Stuff like that isn't really so much a one-choice kind of thing, but really just a ton of grey areas in between.
Things like this are very hard to express in words!
I'll give answering this a shot, then....i'm a switch. Hard to say which way I lean though, it all depends on the setting and the other part(y-ies).
One of my main kinks is tickle torture. If you put someone in front of me who's all submissive, helpless, and sensitive...I find myself easily slipping into a dominant role.
However, I also really enjoy seeing myself in that role as well! Something about being unable to hold back, and be driven further and further into hysterics, just...feeling helpless and not in control, it's really rather freeing in it's own right.
I have noticed that if I go too long without being able to express my submissive needs, I get into a pretty miserable mood, though.
So it might be fair to say I am a switch, leaning Dominant...but there's just something so freeing and relaxing about being a submissive, that I couldn't go without it.
For the next 24 days, everytime this comes on the radio... or a store speaker... I'm gonna think of this pun... Thanks! /s
... really tho, that got at least one well deserved chuckle.
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