How involved are you in your local scene?
Trying to get more discussion in here and I’m often curious whether people who take part in online kink discussions attend events and such
Trying to get more discussion in here and I’m often curious whether people who take part in online kink discussions attend events and such
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Yeah that’s similar to my experience except I have a mistress for a wife (we met in the scene actually)
And thanks, I think that a lot of people who’ve only done online discussions may not understand all the value that comes from a local scene from vetting of partners to vetting of information and skills. I know how good some of my skills are because people I’ve learned to trust as level headed and experienced either taught me or advocated for the people who did. And I can weigh advice by the fact that I have a general read on the giver’s success with it