I tend to just use a vibrator by myself, but with a partner it can be pretty good to use a dildo. I'd say I prefer the more classic silicone dildos, or ones with a big head that can really hit the g-spot. Vibrating or thrusting is just too overstimulating for me.
Thanks for taking the time! In other words, for "solo" play, vibrators are your main go-to. Clit stimulation only or mostly? How important is penetration stimulation when masturbating?
On the dildo side, I'm guessing that whether realistic or not, it doesn't matter much? Other than it having the right shape/curvature to hit the right spots reliability. Is that a fair way to put it?
Solo I tend to stick with vibrators and sometimes a butt plug. I tend to enjoy edging for hours or days, so anything inside me more than my fingers tempts me into cumming.
Yeah, though I'd say the less realistic shapes tend to hit the spot better. Like the head should be bigger than the shaft