Anon discovers his wife played the long game

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I'm not narcissistic, and I didn't "fail" at anything. Your refusal to act in good faith is not my failing.

What you’re contributing to this entire space is not healthy or positive.

You don't deserve "healthy or positive" - and rewarding you for abusing me will only encourage you to abuse me more. You have to be punished until you stop; until you think differently. Your resistance to my parenting is not my failure.

You don't deserve "healthy or positive"

Your instance abides by and agrees with Lemmy's general code of conduct. See here: https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html#moderation

That means that, yes, I and everyone here deserves a healthy and positive environment for discourse. Your behavior and your comments, not just here but throughout, are erratic and problematic leading to incredibly hostile interactions. Even with people who are genuinely trying to listen to you and have a conversation with you even past the point where you've proven that impossible.

Again, please seek help for the benefit of yourself and the people who have to be around you. Remember mental illness is not your fault, but it is your responsibility.

What happened to you?

No hate, serious question. What happened, my bro? If we talk it out perhaps we can help work out a solution

perhaps we can help work out a solution

You can't, just leave him alone or block him.

I’m not narcissistic…You don’t deserve “healthy or positive…you have to be punished until you stop…your resistance to my parenting…

Bro, really? You wonder why people are nasty to you. I try to love all humans, but you are making it hard, but here I go anyway: Others attitudes towards you starts with you. Try to change it. Not with hate, but with love. If a parent did parent “as you do”, they would be a literal abusive parent. If you are in a shitty situation, try to get out, but stop making the world a shittier place. I don’t want you to be or feel shitty, I really don’t. Try to find happiness friend. This is all the advice I have for you. Please, please take it.