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What is a ruined (handsfree) orgasm?
There are two coexisting definitions.
a) Ruined Orgasm - It's the act of stopping all stimulation just as the orgasm contractions start occurring; the resulting orgasm is thus ruined and extremely frustrating, as it decreases the libido without providing any actual pleasure. It is a common method of tease and denial seen in femdom.
b) Abandoned Orgasm - It's the act of stopping all stimulation just before the orgasm contractions start occurring - therefore, it's not actually an orgasm, just an ejaculation. It's arguably much more pleasurable than option A, however it's still quite frustrating.
In addition, there is the concept of "hangtime", which is the amount of time from when stimulation is removed to the time of the first emission. The record hangtime AFAIK is around 7.4 seconds - proof https://lemmynsfw.com/post/48972
Did not mean to exclude female ruined orgasms, but glad to see
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