Butt stuff, those harness style underwear and harnesses in general, chokers. (Nothing too bdsm-y, just the style is sexy) That heavy egirl makeup with the winged eyeliner. Filming and taking private pictures.suoer sloppy blowjobs. Fishnets. thigh high socks with the stripes.
We rarely do anything but my wife likes lace underwear as her limit, and hand stuff. Sometimes PiV.
She gives me a lot of shit and judges me for asking for these things, but on the grand scheme of things I feel like I'm not that crazy.
With our sex life, maybe, but she's an incredible woman in every other way, so you take the rough with the smooth. We're both reletively young so things might change as we get old.
I live in hope. Probably futile hope, but we'll see!
It’s probably not hopeless. After 20 years together, we kinda started out where you are and are having more and better sex than before. She probably has hang-ups. Try adding more dirty talk and get the communication going in the heat of the moment rather than before or after. Start as tame as you have to and see where it goes after a while.
Those are just kinks. It's one thing if your wife doesn't want to do them, but it's shitty of her to actively talk down to you for having them. My ex wife was like that and it's a huge part of the reason she's my ex
Yeah, just answering the question, it's what I get judged on! We're a good team, we're just not very sexually compatible unfortunately,and I guess that's why this account exists!