@YourHeroes4Ghosts
@beehaw.orgThis week is being a bit of a roller coaster. I got a CPAP machine yesterday after having been on a waiting list to get one for years. I was so happy to get it! But last night was by far the worst sleep I've had in ages- the machine feels like it's suffocating me, and I apparently pushed it off my face at some point during the night, but the ridiculous app that came with the machine does not tell you what time you removed the mask or for how long, and apparently if you wake up and take a long time to fall asleep again, the app will totally ignore the initial period of sleep.
So today I'm exhausted and irritable, and woke up to excited messages from friends who were expecting the CPAP to change my life from the very first night, which was difficult to cope with, though of course I know they meant well. I hope things will get better.
Well, I'm 51 and female, and I thoroughly enjoy being the age that I am. In fact I would say that I would rather be this age than any other age I've experienced yet. I highly recommend it. I know getting older is not going to be an entirely pleasant experience, but menopause was very like a second puberty, but instead of being self-conscious and insecure, this time I have run out of fucks to give and just do as I please, regardless of what people think. I had hot pink hair for most of the last year, I only gave it up because I'm too lazy to maintain it.
The jokey post is true. The difference is whether a user sees this as a bug or a feature. Many of us see it as a feature. If you see it as a bug, maybe Lemmy isn't for you.
I also don't want to see the Fediverse "succeed". Both Reddit and Facebook were great for a while, then they "succeeded" and enshittification began. The Fediverse is fine how it is, it doesn't need to become the most popular thing on the internet in order to keep my interest.
I think the issue is that your are expecting a perfectly seamless, Reddit-like experience, with all the admin work done for you but also always done to your satisfaction. That isn't what the Fediverse is about. It's more of a DIY ethic than a "The admins suck but this is all we have" like on Reddit.
I'm also not sure what you'd need to "migrate" to a new instance other than yourself. Karma isn't super relevant here.
My main account is on Beehaw, which has very rightfully defederated with some other instances. When I log in using accounts on other instances, I don't see a massive amount of missed content. In fact I've seen so little of interest that I've stopped looking, it's not worth my time.
You can always set up your own instance if you are disturbed by the actions of admins on instances that you have joined.
Alternatively, if the instance you are on changes direction, you can easily find a new one. It literally took me about half an hour after I learned about the Fediverse to get myself set up on several instances, then later on I decided which I preferred. But I didn't delete the other accounts- they're still there in case I want them someday.
I hate to be pedantic, but I call the feeling "gratitude" rather than "thankfulness" because I personally don't believe there's anyone to thank or who could receive my thanks.
But I'm grateful for many many things. I was able to leave the US twenty-three years ago, and that may be the thing I'm most grateful for. I'm grateful that I recovered from depression seven years ago and have not had a serious relapse (I feel gratitude plays a huge part in that).
I'm grateful for my kids, for my home, my pets, my health, the beauty of the area where I live, the fact that I got an unexpected windfall that let me pay off my debts and line within my small income.
My life is good, and I am filled with gratitude for that.
The thing is, the dress went viral, not the people in the wedding. I have never seen a photo of the bride and groom, nor even a photo of the face of the woman who wore the dress. I don't see how the dress itself going viral could be a nightmare for the people in the wedding.
It was in 2012. Most people where I live think a yearly vacation is a necessity, but I'm a homebody...vacations stress me out.
Yeah, I think I'll look into in as well. On Reddit sometimes people would use NSFW as a trigger warning on writing, but I'm not really triggered by writing. I'm not super into porn of any kind, though, so I'd rather not see that kind of content.