Firstly, the one rule of the instance of the community you are commenting on is "be nice", so maybe relax on the hostilities. That user acted perfectly respectfully, and you came in calling them immature and unprofessional. Afterwards, I replied to in what I think was also a polite manner, and now you're accusing me of having no values. So if you wanna talk about no values and immaturity, feel free to look in a mirror and talk to that person. This will be my last reply to you.
Secondly, you're asking for someone who mods a community to be excluded from it. Why would anyone want to mod a community they like, if it means being excluded from it, or why would you want the mods to be people who don't like a community?
Why would any of you think it’s okay for mods to power-trip?
I never said anything close to even implying that, and you know that. You are simply arguing in bad faith and being a nuisance. You've created far more problems than they ever did, and it seems you're the one trying to exert some kind of power over the community of an instance you are not even a part of by implying that someone, who did not act reprehensibly in any way, should step down from a mod position, just because you've decided they should not share their opinions.
So, to reiterate: there was a misunderstanding that was quickly cleared up. There was no abuse of power. You came in and insulted someone, then insulted me, and created a huge drama over a non-issue. And now I'm done with this conversation. Have a good day.
How do I get a computer?
Well, firstly: people would still make them the way they do now. Some would organize and collect materials, and some would refine and make them into parts that eventually make it into computers. The whole chain would still exist, except now it would be done voluntarily. That's it. Organized labour does not stop existing once you get rid of money. I'm sure you've heard of open source software projects.
Which leads into the second part of my comment: it seems to me that your real fear is that there wouldn't be volunteers for one or several parts of the chain... at which point I have to ask you to take a step back and think about it is that you want, and what you are defending. If there are no volunteers to do a job in such a society, and the only way to get people to do it is threatening them with poverty and starvation, then it is not a job worth doing if you value human rights and dignity.
You probably didn't catch because I edited late, but I gave some recommended reading at the end of my previous comment. To those, I'll add David Graeber's The Dawn of Everything and Bullshit Jobs.
Uncontacted tribes are not the only ones that have used such systems; plenty of other societies throughout time have used similar systems, some quite recently even. It is not antithetical to modernity. For a recent example of a society that used a gift economy, you can look up "Korean People’s Association in Manchuria". I was using uncontacted tribes merely as one example to illustrate that the idea that bartering and capitalism are "natural" and "how it always worked" isn't true, despite that being what many believe.
It’s ultimately more efficient to give people money and then they can spend it on what they need or want.
Why is it more efficient, exactly? In a gift economy, you don't have to give anyone money for anything and won't starve for not having enough money. In a gift economy, you help each other where possible and do things such as art or science for fulfilment and not because you have to put food on the table. Someone who can help, but rarely does, slowly begins to get shunned by the rest of society.
EDIT:
To read more on gift economies and anarchism in general, you can read:
Petyr Kropotkin's Conquest of Bread is a good one; that's more theory
George Orwell's Homage to Catalonia; a sort of memoir of Orwell's time in Catalonia fighting alongside anarchists
Ursula K. Le Guin's The Dispossessed; a sci-fi story about a futuristic anarchist society living on a planet that mutually orbits another planet that is inhabited by other societies.
Why art specifically?
I assume because the topic is video games. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure they are against the whole current system and would prefer a gift based economy. I don't think they are defending a capitalist system where artists don't get paid.
Bye bye studio and any future art because we all are trapped in this capitalist nightmare. Do their families not deserve to be supported for their work?
I think it's safe to assume they are not fans of capitalism; I doubt they want to keep living in a capitalist system where artists and developers are not paid. They are talking about artists and developers because that's what the topic is about, but I would assume this thought stretches to all of society.
What they were describing was basically a society that relies on a gift economy, which has already existed in the past, and still exists in some places and forms today. We've been brainwashed by capitalist societies to think that would be a "hippy-dippy, fantasy land" because capitalism and bartering are what is natural to us, but it's been shown that a gift-based economy is what a lot of uncontacted tribes use. It's also how a lot of friend groups interoperate - hell, start a minecraft server (some other survival game will do) with your friends right now, and you will almost certainly naturally default to using a gift based economy.
It’s immature, and unprofessional.
This isn't a job. They are a user like you who happen to also volunteer to mod because someone has to. They have just as much right to share their opinion as you do, and they did it politely. Besides, they didn't even start an argument, they just shared an opinion, confirmed it, and then clarified again; all of it in a polite manner.
Anybody could goad a mod like that to misusing their authority
They seem to have handled the situation just fine and even left the report for other mods to handle. I really don't see what the big issue is.
I do agree I am matching with the wrong kind of women, I just don't know what to change haha.
My swiping criteria are basically the same as yours; however, instead of seeing a lot of copy paste jokes, I see a lot of profiles that are just an Instagram handle. I'd say easily over 3/4 of profiles I see are empty, and a lot of the others only have an Instagram handle.
I've had good matches and conversations before, and the women I meet outside dating apps are a lot better to talk to, so I know it's just bad luck; but knowing that doesn't stop it being frustrating after several matches in a row where I have to carry the conversation, and that's after swiping through hundreds of empty or bad profiles between each.
So after a while of all that, I decided to take a break. Maybe when/if I return, I'll have a new look at my profile, see if anything can be improved or if there's something that's giving a wrong idea.
Maybe it's just my experience, but this just does not work. Maybe it's because I'm asking "get to know you questions" and perhaps those should be reserved for dates; but the one time I decided to start by arranging a date, I got the answer "I would prefer if we got to know each other better here first" - which I agree with, by the way. So I do end up asking "get to know you questions", but the women I've matched with don't even try to put effort into the conversation.
To demonstrate what I mean by that, here's a fictional representation of an actual conversation I've had (the content is fictional, but the structure and tone is real):
in her profile, she says she likes movies, so maybe I'll ask about that
Me: Hey! So, what was the last movie you watched?
Her: Oppenheimer
Me: Cool, I went to see it last week! What did you think of it?
Her: It's good
ffs, it's always like this. fuck it, instead of asking another question, I'll just answer my own question and make force her to come up with something to say
Me: [Give some of my thoughts on the movie]
Her: Ok
I never replied to her "Ok", and she never said anything else. Most conversations follow along the same lines: me asking questions and getting the shortest answer back with no question turned my way.
This might make me sound horrible, but I had to stop using dating apps because it was beginning to give me a horrible view of women.
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