see horrible things they don’t like and then want to judge God for them
I wonder if there are things you'd judge god for. Is there suffering so great that you would ask "how can he let that happen"? Or is your god compatible with even the worst realities imaginable?
If the former, all we're debating is if the suffering prevalent in our world is great enough to justify the question. And I'd personally argue if you're not entirely ignorant to the suffering of your fellow human beings it definitely is.
If the latter, the categories of "good" and "bad" become completely meaningless. The term "god" becomes meaningless. At this point there's no connection between our reality and whatever idea we might have of a divine power, since the two do not interfere. He is just an idea with no tangible effect on this world, I am irrelevant to him, he is irrelevant to me. The question of his existence becomes pointless.
Why would a super entity be bound by "love" which only humans understand ? Why would "it" have the concept of "evil", something that humans invented out of fear.
It doesn't. That's the point. The Epicurean paradox doesn't say god doesn't exist in some way or form, but the idea of god as someone with a relationship to humanity based on love, omnipotence and omniscience (in any way that's meaningful to us) is apparently false.
Or from your perspective: God loves us in his way; he doesn't love us in our way, which means we can't expect the same mercy, the same support, the same commitment from him as we humans are capable of.
Epicurus refuted one very specific idea of god, which was prevalent at one point in time, but is today only believed by very devout evangelicals. What we today conclude from the fact that apparently no god will alleviate the suffering in this life is up to each individual.
The question whether god may understand or be bound by moral standards is irrelevant though. Apparently he doesn't act on it. Either he doesn't care enough to do or he can't.
Of course one can imagine god in a way that's compatible with our world - for example an evil god, a god that doesn't care about humans, a god that has no relationship with the world, or a god that's incapable of interference with it. Epicurus doesn't say god doesn't exist, merely the (formerly prevalent) idea of an all loving, all knowing, omnipotent creator god. That one is apparently impossible and therefore most likely doesn't exist.
And going one step further we can say: Well okay, maybe god doesn't exist, but apparently not in a way that's relevant to this world. At least not beyond the idea itself. There is no tangible influence of god in this life - he doesn't interfer (for whatever reason). And since the formerly prevalent idea of god is obviously wrong it's hard to say if humans were ever justified in thinking we know something about god at all. (Would be a feat anyway, giving the fact that god apparently doesn't interfer with our reality.) This however leaves very little room to justify or explain the need for religion.
When I was a believer this was the straw that broke the proverbial camel's back. I understood that we know nothing of god, cannot know anything of god, and cannot claim to say he does exist - and that religion therefore made no sense. Back then I called myself an agnostic, taking into account the possibility that, as unlikely as it might me, god could yet exist in some form. Today I don't even believe that. The term "god" stems from a tradition of groundless and increasingly refuted attributions, and there's just as much reason to assume the existence of such a concept as every other work of fiction out there. If you'd experience the world without the predenomination of religion you wouldn't arrive at anything close to their idea of a god in the first place. This was my conclusion from the Epicurean paradox.
So, n=2, now we have a tie.
(Exercise like this might feel futile to you - I find them immensely interesting.)
Still wouldn't answer why god doesn't interfer with evil. Why doesn't he help us against this angel? Heals sicknesses? Stops wars? Saves victims of murder and rape?
I think you're misunderstanding Epicurus. The problem of evil directly refers to human suffering. Whether evil exists outside of our experience has nothing to do with the paradox.
So what are you saying? I really don't get it.
Bad stuff is happening to people. People suffer. Suffering exists. This is not the question.
Is this fact of our reality compatible with the existence of an all knowing, all loving, omnipotent god? Epicurus says no.
So assuming an all knowing, all loving, omnipotent god and our reality we've got ourselves a paradox. How do we solve it? Either one of the premises is wrong (so god could be two or less of those things, but not all three) or there's an entirely different explanation (haven't heard a good one so far tbh).
As a bonus we could now ask ourselves if an entity that is merely two of those original three things would be worthy of worship or would in another way justify the existence of organized religion.
It's a simple task in logical thinking. No idea where you were going with the tree metaphor.
The existence of those paradoxes could also mean that omnipotence in itself is simply impossible.
All fair. You're simply having an entirely different conversation here. Should we respect people's beliefs and religious affiliations? Sure. Don't think anyone in this thread doubted that (or I haven't seen anyone at least). It's just not the point.
Maybe the questions of "what's the truth" or "how far does logic get us in terms of religious statements" are irrelevant to you. Then this post simply isn't for you. Some people, me included, find those questions interesting and worthwhile - although completely separate from your issue about respecting beliefs, illogical as they may be.
As far as this second issue goes: Based on the premises that bad stuff is indeed happening and people are suffering from it, the Epicurean paradox in my opinion very neatly explains why the abrahamic god cannot exist. I have no problem with people believing in him anyway; people also believe in fairies and ghosts and Santa Claus. Good for them. In the past I've occasionally encountered attempts to answer the Epicurean paradox from a religious perspective that struck me as very unkind; especially the attempt to belittle human suffering in itself. They come down to the notion that the suffering in this life is simply not that relevant in the grand scheme of things; it will be compensated or forgotten in the afterlife anyway; it's necessary; it's part of gods plan; or in any other way either actually good or just not that important. So in short: We get ignorant towards human suffering in order to avoid the paradox of it's existence. But by far most religious people don't think like that. They don't think about the Epicurean paradox at all, or they simply don't think it through. And that's okay.
It's also okay not to find any of this interesting. To me personally, my life, my relationship with myself and with the world, those questions were immensely important. Which is why I occasionally still participate in those conversations.
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