@Mikelius
@beehaw.orgLove it except I can't use it because I don't save cookies to keep the "dark setting" enabled and dark reader doesn't automatically invert it, likely due to them breaking some sort of common html/css standards if I had to guess. Wish they would fix it for accessibility. :(
Meanwhile I just ignore sms messages for a week, then respond, then ignore again with an occasional reminder I don't use sms and signal or something else is better to reach me with. Only a couple people left to convince... The most stubborn of the bunch.
But yeah as others said, lying like that ain't going to be good down the road, especially when they're close people to you. Hope this doesn't come back to bite you.
Dunno if anyone mentioned it, but if I had to guess, you have a DNS leak. Basically your DNS requests are going through your ISP instead of the VPN, resulting in them knowing where you're going online anyway. Be sure to check for those DNS leaks and setup a custom one if your VPN doesn't offer one. Don't forget, DNS traffic over port 53 is also unencrypted, so unless you force those through the VPN, they could still know where you're going.
Unless referring to encryption, can you expand on why NC with Dav isn't private? I've got both selfhosted (in home) and haven't picked up on any traffic sharing my calendar to third parties through my logs and alerts, so would like to know more of what you've seen to see if I have a gap in my automated alerts.
Edit: unless your answer was just in response to the OP wanting an already hosted system, then yeah I can understand what you mean there.
If in the US, check out privacy.com. It's a bank so expect the signup process to be as invasive as any other bank, but they allow you to create masked cards and you can fill in any name and address you want into the billing info to keep your real info away from websites. Paid version also hides transactions you make from your actual bank.
Join the Linux club. You'll never go back once you get the hang of it! Nothing in my house has Windows. Left it years ago and have had zero regrets.
Lol yeah I figured, but the very first thing that came to my mind was the generation slang so I felt the unnecessary need to comment on it xD
I won't lie, I had to look at the comments and do a real quick search engine check to find out that the kids these days call the old FPS games "boomer shooter". One hell of a way to remind me about my age by calling me a boomer for liking my childhood FPS games :(
I would argue a VPS is less secure than a trusted provider. Of course, the definition of what's trustworthy is up to each person. The reason I say it's less secure is for 2 reasons:
The belief that a VPN provider doesn't help privacy is a myth. But it's true that you can't depend on the VPN being your only solution to privacy. There are more steps you must take beyond just a VPN, but it's definitely a required step if you want to be truly private. As an analogy: if people said "drinking water won't make you healthy" that's not true... But it's also only a part of what you need to be healthy and the statement's only true if you ignore the other things you need.
Further on the privacy front for my personal opinion: I don't think there's a such thing as a trustworthy ISP with personal data since they definitely track everything you access and probably sell that data, but there are a few trustworthy VPNs who likely don't do this. I'd rather take the risk in a VPN provider that is probably not doing what ISPs do, also allowing me to further enhance my anonymity online.
For me, I've been using Mullvad for about maybe 5 years now, along with a ton of other things I've setup for privacy. Haven't seen a targeted ad in nearly that amount of time, websites always think I'm located somewhere else, and any data breaches I've been a part of where IP addresses are in the data are of no concern to me.
Be sure to also look into geo tracking. If the device you're using is wireless, chances are Google and such can get your exact location if you're exposing your browser or software to geo tracking on the web, or if you don't spoof your Mac addresses. How they do this: the Google maps vehicle that drives around collects the locations of wireless devices and their Mac addresses, so that when you have geo enabled, they can pinpoint you down to a very close lat/long coordinate.