Virtual role playing games as cyber sex is a big hobby for me and I do that in a community chatroom where you can find people based on common interests. For me, it was a huge thing finding a community where I can not only find new people but find people based on common interests to have a easier start and not wasting time and effort in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, I havent found a English community so far, only a country based one. In the end, every chatroom can be a good place to start. A dating app can also be a good starting point, if it is not the goal to find ONS but friends. I think, it is important, that the service focused on communication and exchange and not on meeting other ones.