!asklemmynsfw
Think /r/AskLemmy but way more NSFW.
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Thanks for the in depth description! The "everything going on" vs "one ring" makes a lot of sense, receiving anal I definitely agree, the primary sensation is definitely like of a ring, so that's a really good comparison for me to go off/think about!
And thanks for the suggestion, I'll have to keep exploring! It's tough cause I'm definitely much more attracted to folks with a vagina, and it's kinda scary since it takes a bit to loosen up which is a lot easier to go at my own pace on my own. But I bet a 3-way could be a fun way to try it out, and I could loosen myself up with a toy before they go in 👀🤔
Yeah, if its not your thing, then it's not, don't try forcing things, that never works out well.
But a Bi MMF threesome is a great way to ease into it if your curious, I'm guilty of helping a few guys with their first times experimenting with men.
And I'll be honest, some it just isn't for, most have loved it. But if your nervous, you will clench, then pain, then no fun, so like you said, you loosen up first, not just physically but mentally.
Few drinks, play with her, get turned on, then if you want to be bottom, let him start on you while your on her, (just touching, fingers, so on). slow, go slow. It's not a race. You will know when your ready for more, then he can taken the next step.
Most MMF threesomes we have are about 4 hour sessions, yet 1 on 1 sex is what, 15 min, an hour max?