They're both very different sensations. Vaginal is easiest and I agree with RB, missionary is the best. With the right angle it's a 10/10 orgasm. Plus you get to see your partner's face and reactions which is always enjoyable.
Anal takes work and time, but once he's actually in it does feel good, the orgasm is different but with toys for additional stimulation it's a 7/10 and a much different intensity.
It has happened before! Usually I need clitoral stimulation but sometimes it does happen without, like if he's got a curve or I'm positioned in the right angle. From what past partners have said anal is great because it grips so tightly but just at the opening, after that it's far less stimulating than vaginal penetration. So for me it's nice sometimes but PIV will always win, hands down.
This is pretty much my experience from the other side of things. Anal is fun, it's mostly going in that feels incredible.
To note one big difference, if there is a toy involved (as in DP), totally different story - feels incredible the whole time! Now we just need another penis to enjoy and we can see how that feels.
In general, PIV is my go to, love being able to see my wife's eyes, or how her expression changes while I'm inside her. That right there is more of a turn on than anything else.
I've only done DP with a toy but I agree it feels incredible! MFM is one of my bucket list items 😉 it's really hard to beat PIV. I 100% agree, being able to see your partner's face, whisper in their ear when something feels good is the best. It's all a huge turn on 😊
MMF hope here, we've done MFF which was lots of fun too. Well or MMFF, plenty of ways to enjoy things!
We've also only done DP on her with a toy, but she loved it - and so did I. Hopefully we'll get the option to try a few more things soon 😉