Same here. There's plenty I might like to change here and there in life, but absolutely nothing on this front. Celebrating 11 years in a few weeks, best decision I ever made.
Now, the first time... Well, second time's the charm, it would seem.
This. 25 years later, I love her more than ever.
Moral of the story: no clue. But sexiness was absolutely NOT the magic bullet.
Same. It was a great day and it went exactly as planned and as we wanted. Wouldn't change anything.